Monday, May 21, 2012

“You can never cross the ocean unless you have the courage to lose sight of the shore”

PAINT YOUR SELF WITH COLOURS YOU KNEW NOT EXISTED.
often in life,u meet a person.know that person and get attached thereafter.
last night while talking to a friend of mine,i realized that a person should find joy in himself.aptly put,a person is ones own source of happiness.we mundane people look around for people to provide us with our doses of happiness.what we actually should be doing is looking inside our own selves for the same.
for friends out there who find it difficult to get over people,here's a list of mantras which is time-proven and well tested personally by me:-
  • GO SHOP ALONE-buy stuffs u generally wont lay your hands on.or clothes you wont generally prefer because they are too fashionable for you or too outwardly.this without fail acts as a feel good factor.who would'nt want to look unusually hot??? n different??
  • GO PARTY ALONE-try it! you will be shocked at how much you love it.dance as u wish.with whom ever you wish.as long as u  wish.shout out the songs being played.no one will give a damn around you shouting, credit given to the high decibels of music already playing.
  • GO FOR A CONCERT OR TO AN ART SHOW ALONE-hit the concert you generally used to miss because "someone" found it boring (or too much to handle ;-) ). or go to an art show.the kind of people there will uplift your spirits because all are looking for meanings of life and human emotions in some inanimate thing.plus it will strike to you as a total opposite on how you see life.(trying to find meanings in animate stuff)
  • MEET OLD FRIENDS-if u have been avoiding people lately, you should refrain from doing it now.meeting old friends bring back old happy times.plus seeing them happy to see you assures your inner self that you are still wanted,and very much wanted.
  • JOIN HOBBY CLASSES-always wanted to learn belly dancing??why wait??if u have been yearning to learn how to cook better or sing better or for that matter play a guitar or be able to swim,this is the right time to learn.why?you are now flowing with positive energy which will lead you to self realization if given the right push in the right direction.who knows you may find a superstar in you?
                                                        SO HAPPY SELF DISCOVERY!! :-)

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